‘Django Unchained’ + The High Cost Of Being Thirsty

I finally had the opportunity to see Django Unchained last night and I must say that despite the goriness of the realities of slavery that were depicted in the film, it was quite entertaining. Of course, me being the sap that I am, I was most intrigued by the love of Django for his wife … Continue reading

After The “Thrill” Is Gone: What Makes A Lasting Relationship…

New love is almost like a drug the way that it takes over our emotions and alters our behavior. There’s the excitement of meeting a new person that still lingers accompanied by the curiosity that drives one to explore and learn all that there is to possibly know about their new love interest. The late-night phone calls, … Continue reading

Five Guys Any Woman Leading a Life of Purity Should Avoid

Most of us who are striving to lead a life of purity are looked upon as strange, especially in this day and time where sex is used to sell just about anything (even children’s movies). Leading a life of purity as a young adult is by far not one of the easiest things to do. … Continue reading

What Dangerous Men Tell Gullible Women in the Church

What Dangerous Men Tell Gullible Women in the Church is one of the most insightful books that I have read in a long time. Author Kanika Katherine Daniels goes in depth to describe the dynamic of relationships between Christian men and women and where they have gone wrong. Unlike most authors seeking to tackle the … Continue reading

The Dangers of ‘Comparisonitis’

How often have you measured the capacity of your successes and failures against the successes and failures of another person? For example “I’m doing great in my Christian walk compared to so and so. At least I don’t do (insert action here)” or “Dag, so and so got a promotion at work. I must be … Continue reading

Why I’m In No Rush to Snag a Valentine

This is the time of year when females seem to be the most desperate, most clingy and most annoying and males are the most distant, evasive and cold hearted. This is the time that we all know as Valentine’s Day and this is usually about the time where cuffing season goes south because the ladies … Continue reading

Why ‘Cuffing Season’ Can Potentially Damage Your Future Marriage

I’ve been hearing the foolish term ‘cuffing season’ since high-school and have even fell victim to the hype several times. Now that I look back I’m amazed at how I never realized how detrimental the ideology of ‘cuffing season’ actually is. First of all let’s examine what ‘cuffing season’ actually is to bring those who … Continue reading

Thirsty Church Girls: A National Epidemic

You’re sitting in church service and the spirit is high and I mean HIGH! Your pastor has just delivered an amazing word and there’s no denying that it was a message sent straight from God. Worship is going forth and as the altar call is being conducted you see a fairly attractive young man making … Continue reading

Christians Dating Non-Christians: What’s the Big Deal?

I recently found myself in a situation where I had to make the tough decision  to end a beautifully flourishing friendship with a member of the opposite sex. After 5 months of taking the time to get to know this person I found myself tussling with the idea of severing all ties because I began … Continue reading